
The first date is designed for you and her to get to know each other better. Some of y'all tend to forget that, but its OK. We know you got all excited and wanted to show her a good time... that's all well and good, but there are some ideas that pop in your head that should be discarded immediately. PM is going to give you 5 first date ideas that should be eliminated.
The ClubThe Club may sound like a good idea given the atmosphere; tapas, drinks, and good music, but for a first date it’s a recipe for disaster. The Club could bring out the person that know one should be introduced to on a first date. And if neither one of you can handle your liquor, it will be a very interesting night. I'm sure you don’t want her to have an image of you walking around the club Drunk, and sweaty with your shirt off, and I know you don’t want to keep picking her up off the ground every five minutes. So by all means, for the first date, stay out the club.
House/ApartmentNow this may seem like a good and cheap idea... Cook her a lil dinner and watch a DVD... Wrong Fellas. Even though you may have home field advantage, this can give her a lot more information about you that should not be revealed on the first date. Besides if she turns out to be crazy, she'll already know where you live...
The MoviesI am highly against any first date involving the movies. The main topic of the date will be the movie, and therefore nothing will get accomplished. Two and a half hours of wasted time.
Double DatingGetting to know her privately is already difficult, so getting to know her in a group of people is even harder. Avoid this at all cost. Remember the idea is to get to know her better... that's going to be hard to do if she keeps going to the bathroom with the other female.
Family FunctionsI don't know how many times I've seen this happen and fail. All you need to know is Family and First date do not mix.